http://search.deviantart.com/?q=by:Parkerje1985&section=today deviantART RSS for by:Parkerje1985 en-us Copyright 2009, deviantART.com Tue, 22 Dec 2009 00:39:55 PST deviantART.com http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss http://s.deviantart.com/minish/widgets/apple-touch-icon-precomposed.png http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/9944802/ http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/9944802/ Sat, 02 Sep 2006 20:34:58 PDT
I got this games from It is very fun to do!

Pick the first Letter of Your first Name

A- Fabulous
B-Gorgeous
C-Pretty
D-Popular
E-Gangster
F-Girly
G-Dyke
H-Sweet
I-Retarded
j-Emotional
K-Beautiful
L-Boyish
M-Slutty
N-Preppy
O-Hot
P- amazingg
Q-Punky
R-Hot
S-Sexy
T- Very Sexy
U-Ugly
V-Wonderful
W-Hott
X-Bitchy
Y-Under-appreciated
Z-Over-appreciated


Now the third letter in your middle name(if you dont have one use your last name):

A-beauty queen
B- skank
C-Bitch
D-Obsesser
E- God (ess)
F-Retard
G-Queen/ King
H-Slut
I-Girl
J-Goth
K-Nerd
L- Ho
M-Sex machine
N-Alcoholic
O-Geek
P-Babe
Q-Crackwhore
R-pornstar
S-Prince (ess)
T-Whore
U-Cry Baby
V-Jackass
W-Punk
X-Scaredy-cat
Y-Coward
Z-Chocoholic


Now What Color Is the Shirt You Are Wearing:

Red- Who's Good With My Hands
purple- Who Looks At Porn 24/7k
Orange- Who Likes It In The Butt
Yellow- Who Wants To Have Sex With You
Green- Who will do anything for Sex
Pink- Who Will Do Anything For Crack
blue- Who wants to fuck everyday
White- Who everyone wants to fuck
Brown- Who Wears Big Sunglasses
Black- Who will rock your world
Gray- who gives great head
None-who is a beast in bed

NOW REPOST THIS WITH THE NAME & STATEMENT YOU GOT
BEGINNING WITH "I'm a..."

To all new watchers, comments and favorites:

Hi you all, and thank you for adding me to your friend list, your favorites and comments! Before you all think I am rude or that I think I am too good to watch you, comment you or favorite your work… here are two things you need to know:

I try to go thru all your galleries during the weekends, weather you watch me or not. During weekdays it is almost impossible to me.
I try to comment all those pictures –even If I don’t favorite them- that I find appealing to me. It is unrealistic to expect me to comment every picture in a gallery, but at least I go thru them from the very first one and take my time to comment and / or favorite those I like.

So please be patient and wait for your turn, since I already have people on my waiting list. Thank you all for your time! I am trying to dedicate all of you at least the same amount of time you dedicated me.

[link] ]]> ~Parkerje1985 http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/9682819/ http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/9682819/ Thu, 10 Aug 2006 19:48:30 PDT

1.Stand up and go to the closest privet mirror where you can see most if not all of your body.

2.Make sure that your completely alone ( just you nobody else not even you boyfriend or girlfriend can be there) and lock the door, oh and take a notebook and pen with you your gonna need it.

3.Take off all your clothes ( don't worry I'm not watching ) every last bit of your clothes.

4.Now look at your self in the mirror, and I mean really look not just a quick glance like I know so many of you would do, really stop and take a long look at every bit your self ( now this won't mean your weird gay or sick if you turn your self on it should be a natural feeling, most people do get horny when they look at there self(your own body should turn you on before any other does) so don't worry about that ).

5.Ok now this is where the note book and pen come in.

6.Alright write down your first reaction to seeing yourself nude, second write down how it makes you feel.

7.Now I want you to write down what you don't like about yourself ( and don't hold back ), then write down how you feel about that.

8.Now I want you to write down what you like about your body and I mean every thing.

9.Now I want you to thank about what you can do to make the thing you don't like about your body more like able to you no one else just yourself, also thank about why you don't like those parks of your body.

This is something that is a common sex ed exercise which is kept to ones self, but I am gonna ask you to do some thing hard post them in the comments for this Journal and I will be one of the first to do so, you don't half to post your finding but if you do they will be greatly appreciated, you see I like to study the human body and peoples reactions to there own. I am most infatuated with the female body and how it is perceived.
The female body a work of art ?
The male body a work of art? ]]> ~Parkerje1985 http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/8367575/ http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/8367575/ Tue, 04 Apr 2006 19:33:04 PDT In the Context of Homophobia

by Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2000

Remember growing up and hearing the word "pervert"? Nobody wanted anything to do with them--they were the "sick and demented" people whom everyone despised. And yet the word "pervert" is used both for people who sexually abuse children, as well as lesbians and gay men. By very definition lesbians and gay men are considered child molesters.

Newspapers draw connections between the sexual abuse of boys by men and gay sex all the time. When a mainstream newspaper covers a story of men sexually abusing boys, it is referred to as homosexual abuse of children. Yet, when the same newspaper covers stories of men sexually abusing girls, it is not described as heterosexual abuse. Male-to-male child sexual abuse is equated with gay sex when there is nothing gay about it.

While women also sexually abuse boys, in this article I focus on the unique dynamic and effects of men sexually abusing boys.


Victims of Sexual Abuse are Assumed to be Gay

Since male-to-male sexual abuse is believed to be the equivalent of gay sex, the victim is also believed to be gay. Some survivors are even called "fags" by the men who abuse them. Others don't tell anyone about the abuse because they know that they'll be blamed and taunted with homophobic slurs. One survivor told me that after he went public about being a survivor, he was in a store holding hands with his girlfriend and someone said,"I thought he'd be a fag".


The Myth of the All-Powerful Man

A common myth is that men cannot be victims. The thinking goes, "He's a guy...he could have stopped it if he really wanted to." It's assumed that the survivor must have consented because sexual abuse does not happen to "real" men, and thus since he must have consented, he must be gay. Add to this the common, but mistaken belief that boys and men cannot become erect or ejaculate unless they are aroused or consent, and we have a powerful and pervasive belief system that keeps male survivors silent and ashamed.


The Myth that Sexual Abuse Causes You to be Gay

Even when survivors identify as straight, they are not believed because of another homophobic myth that sexual abuse "causes" homosexuality. There is no evidence that suggests abuse causes one's sexuality. Our sexuality is far too complex. If anything, we live in a society that tries to ensure that everyone is straight, and this perhaps more than anything else has a profound influence on how people identify their sexuality.

While it is true that survivors of abuse, like anyone else, can engage in sexual behaviours that they may not desire, but engage in for very a variety of reasons, this is equally true for heterosexual and homosexual sex. In other words, someone can engage in gay acts and not be gay, just as someone can engage in heterosexual acts and not be heterosexual.


"Is This What it Means to be Gay?"

Most often abusers hold positions of authority and are known and trusted by their victims. This has a powerful effect on the victims. Because the child respects the abuser, or the abuser is an authority figure (for example, an older brother, father or coach), the child tells himself that the abuse must be okay—perhaps even normal. And, if it's okay, the child reasons, and since it involves sexual acts, then it must be sex. The child may ask himself, "Is this what it means to be gay?" This association is extremely harmful to survivors–both gay and straight.


How do These Myths Impact on Abused Men?

The very nature of sexual abuse and incest, and its associated stigma causes humiliation, shame, self-blame, fear, and secrecy for survivors. It can be hard for them to speak openly about their experiences. Survivors of male-to-male sexual abuse have to contend with the additional stigma and impact of homophobia, which increases their shame, isolation, and secrecy.

Equating the abuse with gay sex leaves most survivors confused and conflicted about their sexuality. If they identify as straight, they may experience homophobic fear and panic that maybe they really aren't. They may take desperate measures to prove to themselves that they aren't gay. Some men may behave in a really macho way, for example, have sex with a number of women, try to get a woman pregnant, or harass gay men. They may in fact be gay, but the thought of being the same as their abuser stops them from coming out, or from feeling comfortable with their gay sexuality.

It's not uncommon for survivors of abuse to blame themselves, but men blame themselves for different reasons than women. Men often believe, and quite strongly, that they "let it happen" simply because they are men. Men are supposed to be all powerful--neve... ]]> ~Parkerje1985 http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/8059971/ http://Parkerje1985.deviantart.com/journal/8059971/ Fri, 03 Mar 2006 20:32:51 PST
I'M BACK HELL YA NO MORE STUPID SHIT. ]]> ~Parkerje1985